Just me again. My surgeon (who is female by the way) just responded again to my email. This is the response I was looking for.
It just goes to show that you have to be your own best advocate with ANY doctor, do your own research, be on top of things, don't just roll over and accept what they say.
From my surgeon:
"I understand your feelings and frustration. I am looking into options for aggressive surgical resection as well."
Now that's more like a team player. Sheesh man. Lucky I have the energy, education, language and confidence to fight these people a bit. What if english was my second language or I was too tired too fight or I was raised never to question authority.I am just steaming mad!